patterns

I started to think that we are bounded to a certain destiny or fate. in this last week i believe i've even had the example to proove it. ...
Are we born to fallow a pattern that rarely, if never, will be broken? ...any time we will try to be different, or in other way that we are expected to be we will be considered weirds, strange, we will be incriminated, marginalised, feel shame and rejection. While if we are fallowing the patterns we are expected to, we will .......what?....succede more easily?, succede what? and who will give their dreams and hopes for a life that they don't really think is theirs or that they wanted.

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